Tonight I had my fourth meeting and I feel like I am starting to get to know my group better. Although, I can say that attendance is a certainly a factor in the dynamic of each meeting. The first week everyone attended and I was pleasantly surprised to learn that I had two boys in my group and three girls. The second week only the two boys could come, which worked out as we had a great conversation about American football along with one of my friends. Last week, only the girls could come, and although I had planned to play a game with them, we ended up chatting the whole hour. This week, once again, it was just the boys, and the girls weren't there. I brought a card game, yet we never had time to play. It's funny how it has worked out, but I enjoy the conversation each time none the less.
One thing I really appreciate is that I am getting to know them each individually, in addition to learning about their culture in general. One of my group members really likes art museums for example, and another one loves listening to Jason Mraz.
I always feel better about having something to do, having a "plan", yet it usually ends up never being used. I feel like I act as a "facilitator" only when there is a lull in conversation, or when I try to get one of the group members to further explain what they are saying. But I also feel like I am just chatting with friends at times, when they are talking to each other and comparing the differences between Chinese and Korean music or their interest (or disinterest) in museums. I look forward to these meetings and getting a chance to take a break and have meaningful conversations with kind souls.
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